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![]() Sexual harassment is not only about sex |
While staggering jury awards capture headlines, the truth is that few cases ever find their way into a courtroom. Most victims suffer their humiliation in silence—pawns in an ugly game of power and intimidation that is played out in offices, on streets, in buses, at lunch counters, and in factories. At times, there is outright coercion to have intimate relations. Most of the time, though, the molestation consists of subtler, yet shamelessly offensive, acts: unwelcome or inappropriate touches, lewd remarks, lascivious stares.
Sexual Harassment—Myth Versus FactMyth: Sexual harassment is grossly overreported. It is just another fad, a product of media hype and hysteria. Fact: By and large, a woman has much to lose and little to gain by reporting victimization. Indeed, only a minority of women (22 percent according to one survey) ever tell anyone that they have been harassed. Fear, embarrassment, self-blame, confusion, and ignorance of their legal rights keep many women silent. Many experts thus believe that the problem is grossly underreported! Myth: Most women enjoy the attention. Those who claim they have been harassed are merely hypersensitive. Fact: Surveys consistently show that women take offense at such rude treatment. In one survey, "over two fifths of the women said they felt disgust and about one third said they were angry." Others reported feeling anxious, hurt, and depressed. Myth: Men are victimized just as much as women. Fact: Researchers for the National Association of Working Women (U.S.) report that "an estimated 90 percent of harassment cases involve men who have harassed women, 9 percent are |
True, some reject calling such behavior harassment, arguing that it is merely a bungling attempt on the part of some men to attract the attention of the opposite sex. But many, like writer Martha Langelan, reject such attempts to excuse the offensive behavior. She writes: "It is not clumsy courtship, or rude courtship, or joking courtship, or 'misunderstood' courtship. It is not meant to appeal to women; it is behavior that serves another function entirely. Like rape, sexual harassment is designed to coerce women, not to attract
Women usually react to sexual harassment, not with pleasure, but with feelings ranging from disgust and anger to depression and humiliation. Recalls one victim: "The situation destroyed me. I lost my trust, my confidence, my self-respect, and my career aspirations. My personality drastically changed. I had been happy-go-lucky. I became bitter, withdrawn, and ashamed." And when the perpetrator is an employer or someone else in power, harassment takes on a particularly ugly appearance.
Little wonder, then, that courts have begun to punish offenders and compensate victims. Since the U.S. Supreme Court defined such mistreatment as a violation of civil rights, employers have increasingly been held legally responsible for maintaining a work environment that is not "hostile or offensive."
Companies that tolerate sexual harassment may suffer low employee morale, higher absenteeism, lower productivity, and high employee turnover—not to mention financial disaster if victims decide to sue.
Just how prevalent is sexual harassment? Surveys indicate that more than half the women in the work force in the United States have experienced it. One book thus claims: "Sexual harassment is a pervasive problem. It happens to women in every profession from waitress to corporate executive. It occurs at every level of the corporate hierarchy and in every kind of business and industry." However, the problem is hardly limited to the United States. The book Shockwaves: The Global Impact of Sexual Harassment, by Susan L. Webb, cites the following statistics:*
CANADA: "One survey showed that 4 out of 10 women reported being sexually harassed at work."
JAPAN: "An August 1991 survey showed that 70 percent of the women who responded experienced" harassment at work. "Ninety percent said they were sexually harassed on the way to and from work."
AUSTRIA: "A 1986 survey showed almost 31 percent of women reported serious harassment incidents."
FRANCE: "In 1991 a
THE NETHERLANDS: A study showed that "58 percent of the women responding [to the survey] said they had personally experienced sexual harassment."
Of course, molestation and harassment in the workplace are nothing new. Women—and sometimes men—were subject to such mistreatment even back in Bible times. (Genesis 39:7, 8; Ruth 2:8, 9, 15) But such misbehavior seems to be particularly prevalent today. Why so?
For one thing, in recent years women have entered the job market in record
numbers. More women are therefore exposed to situations in which such abuses can
occur. However, of even greater significance is what the Bible prophesied long
ago: "Remember this! There will be difficult times in the last days. Men
will be selfish, greedy, boastful, and conceited; they will be
The prevalence of sexual harassment also reflects the "new morality," which swept the world during the 1960's. The tearing down of traditional moral boundaries has been accompanied by a shocking disregard for the rights and feelings of others. Whatever its cause, sexual harassment is a grim reality of the workplace. What can men and women do to protect themselves? Will there ever be a time when the workplace will be free of harassment?
* Statistics tend to vary, since researchers use different survey methods and different definitions of sexual harassment.
Appeared in Awake! May 22, 1996 |
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